The Big Healing Picture

Here’s what we know. Women are made for communities. Women are the healers. Women are full of great knowledge. Women are gentle until righteous anger is required. Women are capable of loving everyone. Women have forgotten.

I’ve heard stories of women gathering in communities to help with child rearing, cooking, healing, etc. But somehow that community got smaller. Maybe instead of a whole village it became an entire generation under one roof. Though in 2026 women are lucky to have a mother or grandmother helping them from a few doors down. On the very rare occasion they have help from friends a few doors away. But we are talking childcare. For the most part everyone is still on their own for cooking and cleaning and healing.

And we all see women out here healing. We are nurses, various types of therapists, and energy workers. But are we really in community? Most nurses work under the arch of a corporation. They aren’t free in their healing and they aren’t necessarily working hand in hand with other women. We’ve all experienced competition in the workforce, yes? In fact, they are told how to heal. And what about your therapists? Let’s just use massage therapists as an example. They rarely practice as much self-care and healing as they give out. Same with our energy workers.

I’m going to go ahead and say the hurtful part out loud. So, hold on Ladies and know that I love ya because here it is. We do work in communities. Yay! Um, no. We gather in groups to actually exclude. We have friend circles, church groups, networks, etc. that are closed. And we have become great at ganging up on other women. You heard me.

I don’t even care if you say, “I’m so concerned” in your sweetest voice, we do it! We judge other women’s looks, character, career, spouse, children, religion, home, meals, clothes, illnesses, weight, failures, etc. etc. etc. We’ve got those communities down. And we think they work. Until they don’t.

And here it is. We need to heal that crap. Because the truth is our ancestors have allowed, and we have continued to allow, these communities to go the wrong way. And I strongly believe the reason is because WE hurt.

That’s right. Let’s get uncomfortable gals. We hurt. We are sad. We have trauma. We have insecurities. We are lonely. And it seems, in the present, these are easier to address by pointing it out in other women. But it doesn’t really work. Eventually we end up finding ourselves outside a clique. I mean, a community. It really hurts when everyone is talking about us too.

So here is what I want to offer to women. A new community that focuses on healing. We heal the world by raising the frequency. We heal women by raising the female frequency. We do that by doing solo work together. Women have to heal their own traumas and raise their own frequencies before anything changes. We are it, Ladies. We are where healing starts.

My dream for The Ameliorate is a community space that leaves room for women to support women while women heal themselves. I can already feel in my spirit that this is how we heal the world. We raise the frequency one woman at a time. And I invite all women to remember with The Ameliorate community.